I am sure you have faced this situation before, even without considering all the tracking the “big ones” do of our online searches!! When you hear or learn a new or obscure word, or even experience or notice something new or rare to you, you suddenly see it everywhere. This is the Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon or now you will see it everywhere syndrome. While I am not really sure if you will actually see the name of this phenomenon all around, I am guessing there will be something related to it at least that you might find yourself looking at over and over again!!
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How I Got to Baader-Meinhof: See it Everywhere!
Surprisingly, I had not planned to write about this topic at all today, but I ended up here because I started seeing one word everywhere suddenly. My ‘learn a new word a day’ did not bring me here, neither did any other fancy new word. It was also not some obscure event or strange new compulsion I had. Not at all. In my case, that word was grandmother – so very familiar, so very comforting, but it did happen (and yes, related words too popped up all over)!!!
You see, I went over to dVerse Poets Pub yesterday for I haven’t joined in there for too long and wanted to check out the current prompt so I could participate. Turns out, the prompt was grandmothers, and now I am seeing it – the word, I mean – everywhere!! And the only place I did a search for the word after seeing that prompt was on my blog archives to search for a poem I wrote about my grandmom a few years ago!
Here are couple of the things I did see popup
- this news article about Bay Area Grannies kicking off the Lunar New Year in San Francisco
- and this Facebook post about a bride and groom each asking their grandmas to be flower girls at their wedding <3
More About How We See it Everywhere
The Story Behind the Name
First, the origins of the name of this phenomenon. It has nothing to do with researchers or scientists who explored the science behind this phenomenon. It got its name from a terrorist group in W Germany after a particular case of this phenomenon occurred (before it had this name, of course). A man named Terry Mullen wrote to a newspaper column for the St Paul Pioneer Press in 1994 that he had first heard of this hitherto unknown faction, and soon after came across their name from another source. Soon after the paper published Mullen’s story, other readers sent in their own similar experiences. And the name was born!
The Science Behind It
This phenomenon, also termed ‘frequency illusion‘ (by Arnold Zwicky, a Stanford professor), actually involves two different biases of our brains.
- The first is selective attention, which simply means noticing things that are important to us and ignoring the rest.
- The second is confirmation bias, which refers to our tendency to look for things supporting our hypotheses while disregarding potential counter-evidence (source).
So, if you were seriously considering getting that new ‘all-green’ car and maybe in a particular color, and you suddenly see those cars all around you, it is just the frequency illusion at work! Or maybe you already have seen the cars popping up everywhere already!
Other Interesting Phenomena
You might have experienced other such phenomena as well, like deja vu, or illusory motion (the feeling of motion when in a stopped vehicle and the vehicle next to you starts moving), or even something termed as event boundary (where we forget why we entered a room in the first place)! Our brains sure are so very interesting even in the quirks!
h/t and further reading
- What’s the Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon? (howstuffworks)
- Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon (dictionary.com)
- The Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon (damninteresting)
- The Frequency Illusion (GravityIdeas via the Medium)
Grandmothers: the dVerse Prompt!
This week’s Poetics prompt at dVerse is – “to write about grannies. Those older women who support us and nurture us. The women who perhaps spoil us a little, but reserve the right to tell us off. Maybe you are a grandma, or live with one. Tell me how it is to be a granny.”
I’ve So Many Grammys
Grandmoms are so very warm
Like hugs, cookies, hot teas..
Grandmoms are cool too
The most wonderul ‘shes’!
Don’t you agree?
Here are some paati*-tales
(Note – paati, not party)
Stories of amazing females
that I so luckily knew..
First, THE ‘athai-paati*,’
My grandpa’s sole sibling
(on dad’s side, I mean)..
Who was (I say fondly) chatty!
A bundle of energy was she,
And a walking fact-ionary…
Always ready with a quip..
In today’s world, she would be
what my teens call ‘hip’!
Never mind that she mixed us up
My cousin often became me
And if we sat still too long,
Well, we were setting ourselves a trap!
(Once again, fondly..I mean no wrong)
For athai-paati sure loved to yap!
Then there was Subbayya maami*
She was everyone’s grammy..
An aunt of an aunt was she,
and a tower of strength was she..
At gatherings and get-togethers,
it was inevitable rather,
that the answer was always –
“Ask maami!” ‘Awesome-sauce’
indeed is how I would sum up,
her magnanimous personality!
As for my very own grammys –
I mean, my mom’s and dad’s mammys,
Amazing women were they indeed
To tell their tales, more time I will need!
~Vidya @ ladyinreadwrites
- *paati – grandma in Tamil
- *athai – aunt (specifically dad’s sister) in Tamil
- *maami or mami – aunt (specifically mom’s brother’s wife) in Tamil; also used for family friends
- Deja vu? Golden Shovel Revisited
- The Giant Hug: A sweet sweet read about sending your granny a hug across miles…
- Suki’s Kimono: A love of family and culture is depicted in the sweetest way indeed!
- I’ll Go and Come Back: A tender story about a girl in America and her grandmother in India
- Joy: It is simply a joy to read this book about Fern looking for her Nanna’s joy!
- My Paati’s Saris: As vibrant as the colorful saris and as heartwarming as all grandmas!
- Last Stop on Market Street: Classic and simply beautiful..
- Stand Tall, Molly Lou Melon: I love Molly Lou Melon and this one kept me smiling throughout.
- How to Greet a Grandma: Learn how to greet grandmas around the world in this delightful read
- Those Shoes: This one tugged at the laces of my heart throughout (pun intended!)
And Now, the End of This Post
Dear reader, hoping you enjoyed this and here is kind of knowing (and hoping) you will see this everywhere!! As always, I welcome any and all thoughts and comments on this post.